I have nothing to sell. I personally have not written a book or created a product. Luckily, other people have. One thing that victims tell me over and over is that they don't know where to look for products that will help them. The internet can be confusing and intimidating and they just wish someone would point them in the right direction. I decided that I would try to help by making a simple list of a few links to get you started. I have researched the internet and found several products and services that I think would be appropriate for people trying to get help to end their nightmare of being stalked and harassed. I'm providing this list of links in the hopes that you find a solution that works for you. Personal Safety:    Pepper spray is a must, it gives you a chance to get away and call the police. This website offers pepper spray that comes disguised as lipstick or as a pen. I personally have a "pen" pepper spray that I can wear in a shirt pocket and nobody is the wiser. For ladies, I think the lipstick container is brilliant. They also have the kind that dangle from a key ring and I would recommend that you keep one in your car, one by the front door, and one by the bed. Follow this link to the website, then type "pepper spray" in the little search box near the top and you can see all the different pepper sprays they offer.                     A Home Alarm is a good idea as well. If you don't want to pay a monthly fee to an alarm company, then I would suggest you look at the different alarms on this link. For when your not at home, I like the "TeleSpy Intruder Alert." It calls your cell phone if it senses movement in the house and you can listen through your cell phone. If you hear someone in the house you can call the police. For when you are at home I like the "Door Stop Alarm." It lets out an audible alarm as well as stops the door. It's simple and cheap, and you can place it at your entry door, bedroom door, or both. To see other alarms that you might prefer, click on the picture below, when you get to that website type "alarm" in the search box near the top of the page.         A Barking Dog  is effective because it alerts when someone is there, and most humans are a little apprehensive about dogs they don't know because they are afraid of being bitten. It should be a new dog that does not already trust your Ex. It should be trained not to bark except when someone comes that it doesn't know. I have dogs, they are good for my home security and are loving members of our family. People who visit always comment on how well trained they are. They don't jump on visitors, don't get on the furniture, and don't leave the front yard when I open the front door. It's no miracle that they behave, it's the result of consistency in training. For your own peace of mind, train your dog! This website has a good training program which includes videos.    Dog Training     A Diversion Safe is a sneaky way to keep valuables in the house in a place a thief or stalker would never think to look. I personally have one in my bathroom that looks like an ordinary bathroom product. My kids know there is money in it and they have the green light to use it if they need money immediately, so long as they tell me so I can replenish it. They have used it for  school needs and pizza  delivery.  I joke with them that  when  I die,  the first person to  the bathroom money gets it!  The key is to have the safe look like an everyday item, but not something your stalker might actually want. Your stalker might get the munchies if they see a can of soda or box of crackers. The can of dried soup is one of my favorites because it is easily recognized as something that requires hours of preparation, not at all interesting to someone snooping through your cupboards. This link has quite a few diversion safes: click here: Soup Diversion Safe Spy Cameras, Nanny Cams, and Surveillance Cameras  will leave no doubt in your mind whether somebody was in your home. They are great for collecting evidence. You can point it at a main travel area in the home, on the front door exterior, or at the place you park your car. Some systems include four or more cameras so you can cover all likely angles. If you want to put one in the house, I like the mirror camera because even burglars and stalkers can't help but check themselves out as they pass a mirror, thus recording a perfect image of them.     This site has many hidden cameras in clocks, toys, air fresheners, you name it and they have hidden cameras in it. Click on the picture above, then when you get to that website you can type "hidden camera" in the search box to see all their cameras. Personal Research:       Phone and people Search  lets you find out who owns the phone that keeps calling you. Get the number off your Caller ID and go to this website. People search can also be done here. I think every person should do a people search on themselves so they will know what information their stalker can find on the internet.  PHONE and PEOPLE SEARCH  COURT RECORDS gives you access to criminal records, background checks, sex offender files. I suggest you check out somebody before you start a serious relationship to see if they have stalked or abused their former lover, or have a drug problem. I like to call this "not making the same mistake twice."        COURT RECORDS  COMPUTER PRIVACY is very important. Your stalker may be able to hack into your computer remotely, especially if they ever lived with you or had access to your computer they may have downloaded a spyware program onto it. You don't want your stalker to know the content of emails you deleted, websites you visited, credit cards you made purchases with, or files you downloaded, and you don't want them to continue seeing what you are doing. Check out this program that you can download off the internet. It's easy and doesn't require you to go to a store and then figure out how to install it from a disc.                                 SPY WARE REMOVER      COMPUTER PRIVACY  CHILD CUSTODY  If your EX is using child custody issues as a threat against you, check this site.         CHILD CUSTODY